“Ladies, this is for you.”
Getting into a man’s mind is not quite as challenging as you assume. In reality, they are uncomplicated creature. Men are not needy and they don’t require a lot from their partner. They wouldn’t try to put a name on everything or dicking too deep into contexts. However, they still have an incomprehensible future and that is their natural characteristic of withholding when it comes to their true emotions or expectations.
They don’t want to present themselves as a vulnerable person when they show you their true thoughts. That leads females into a mind- game sometimes. In such situations, you should use delicate and caring words to say to him because if he is somehow sad or upset, he tends to keep it to himself.
Possibly he won’t express his negative emotions to you when he receives an insensitive comment. He will tell no one and when time passes, his feelings will be so overwhelming that he can’t handle it. Therefore, it would be best to prevent it from happening. No relationship is the same, yet, there are common rules when communicating. Communication is very crucial but it is a two-edged sword, it can be a practical conversation which build up a healthy bond but it can also be h*rtful and may bring an opposite outcome. Therefore, it’s very important to choose an appropriate topic to discuss.
You just need to be mindful and avoid sensitive topics so that it won’t offend your partner. Continuing to discuss undesirable topics can cause you a relationship, therefore, the below contents are the things you should avoid in order to maintain your love.
01 – Your past relationship should not be mentioned frequently during your talk.
Under no circumstances should you actively mention your past romances, except when he asks about it, this is one of the basic rules. Make sure you always have in mind that never talk about these subjects. One of the last things which he is concerned about is your ex’s charm.
He will care either about your former partner’s excellent skills in bed or his perfect personality. Hearing about your ex’s bad qualities is also not appealing to him. Even criticising your ex is still off limits to your current man.
The main point is that he simply doesn’t want your history to exist in the conversation. When you accidentally mention your ex, thoughts such as why you’re still thinking about that person will drive him nuts. It will give him anxiety feelings and you certainly don’t want that, do you?
02 – Judging comments which can h*rt or decline his masculinity and personality shouldn’t be heard by him.
Masculinity and ego is considered to be a man’s most significant thing. Men find satisfaction in taking care of their loved one and they are proud of it. Indeed, no one is perfect and they will make mistakes, but male don’t deal with failure well. Their ego is vulnerable and it can be easily broken down.
They will feel a lot of insecurity even though they only make minor mistakes. Therefore, while he’s at his low point of his life, you should avoid touching his wound.
People have their ups and downs and if he is at his down, find a way to encourage, support him instead of making crude judgement and lowering his confidence. All that is necessary to him at that time is encouragement, not a lecture. If you show him that you’re not supporting and believing in him, he won’t be with you when he is successful.
03 – You can never offend his mother.
There is no question that his mother means the world to him. Before you, his mother has always been the first priority. You always need to understand that he treasures his mother as his queen. You start saying somethings bad about his mother and from that moment on, he will begin to exclude you from his life.
The woman who gave birth and made him into the man that he is now has been and will always have his respect as well as his graceful gratitude. For that reason, if you choose to h*rm his most essential and meaningful person, you should think twice. This situation can never lead to a good end, your relationship will begin to go wrong from this point.
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